On Purpose with Jay Shetty

What On Purpose with Jay Shetty Says About Relationships

35 episodes about relationships

Key Insights on Relationships

Dating success isn't practiced, it's absorbed - women respond to men whose lives require confidence, not men trying to be confident

  • We're in Cold War II between US and China, but with much deeper economic ties than the US-Soviet relationship ever had
  • Blue-collar workers on construction sites were the most even-keeled about COVID because they have a daily relationship with danger and know how to calibrate risk
  • "Not because you're great, not because you're amazing, not because you're the best, but because I love you" - Mike
  • "Your cohort is going to run all the important institutions 35 years from now" - Lloyd advising young professionals on long-term relationship building
  • The three pursuits after health and wealth are truth, love, and beauty - truth is permanent, love means being in love rather than being loved
  • Every relationship is transactional with value exchange - the secret to happy relationships is two happy people, not trying to make each other happy
  • Cousin marriage remains prevalent worldwide because genetic risks drop dramatically from 0.5 relatedness (siblings) to 0.125 (cousins), making biological concerns minimal

Episodes

Dhar Mann: Not Where You Want to Be Yet? (Follow THIS 5-Step Framework to Stop Overthinking and Finally Take Action)

Dhar Mann: Not Where You Want to Be Yet? (Follow THIS 5-Step Framework to Stop Overthinking and Finally Take Action)

Dr. Lisa Miller: Feeling Lost, Stuck or Anxious? (Use THIS Spiritual Framework to Finally Move Forward With Clarity)

Dr. Lisa Miller: Feeling Lost, Stuck or Anxious? (Use THIS Spiritual Framework to Finally Move Forward With Clarity)

Still Thinking About Your Ex? (Use This 2-Step Reset to Stop the Spiral for Good!)

Still Thinking About Your Ex? (Use This 2-Step Reset to Stop the Spiral for Good!)

Stop Saying Yes When You Want to Say No (Use This Simple Daily Practice to Set Boundaries Without Guilt)

Stop Saying Yes When You Want to Say No (Use This Simple Daily Practice to Set Boundaries Without Guilt)

Top Entrepreneur Anjula Acharia: The #1 Skill That Makes People Say YES (Use THIS Strategy to Turn One Conversation Into Multiple Opportunities)

Top Entrepreneur Anjula Acharia: The #1 Skill That Makes People Say YES (Use THIS Strategy to Turn One Conversation Into Multiple Opportunities)

Esther Perel: The REAL Reason You’re Struggling to Find Love (Fix THIS to Build Chemistry in Real Life)

Esther Perel: The REAL Reason You’re Struggling to Find Love (Fix THIS to Build Chemistry in Real Life)

Bridget Bahl: The Diagnosis That Changed Everything (The Reality She Wasn’t Prepared For and the Perspective It Gave Her)

Bridget Bahl: The Diagnosis That Changed Everything (The Reality She Wasn’t Prepared For and the Perspective It Gave Her)

10 Books That Changed My Life

10 Books That Changed My Life

Tim Ferriss: Feeling Stuck Right Now? (Use THIS 10-Minute Exercise to Stop Overthinking and Take Action)

Tim Ferriss: Feeling Stuck Right Now? (Use THIS 10-Minute Exercise to Stop Overthinking and Take Action)

10 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew in My 20s

10 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew in My 20s

Jan-Emmanuel De Neve: The Simple Daily Habit Linked to Happiness (Do This ONE Thing Every Day and Significantly Improve Your Life!)

Jan-Emmanuel De Neve: The Simple Daily Habit Linked to Happiness (Do This ONE Thing Every Day and Significantly Improve Your Life!)

Parenting Expert Emily Oster: The #1 Parenting Mistake That Causes Unnecessary Stress (Use THIS Data-Backed Framework to Debunk the Biggest Parenting Myths!)

Parenting Expert Emily Oster: The #1 Parenting Mistake That Causes Unnecessary Stress (Use THIS Data-Backed Framework to Debunk the Biggest Parenting Myths!)

David Grutman: The Career Advice Everyone Gets Wrong (#1 Key to Opening Doors That Lead to Success)

David Grutman: The Career Advice Everyone Gets Wrong (#1 Key to Opening Doors That Lead to Success)

NOAH KAHAN: Imposter Syndrome, Anxiety & The Pressure of Success (What He’s Never Shared Before)

NOAH KAHAN: Imposter Syndrome, Anxiety & The Pressure of Success (What He’s Never Shared Before)

Dr. Gabor MatΓ©: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Dr. Gabor MatΓ©: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Logan Ury: #1 Dating Mistake That Leads to the Wrong Relationship (Use THIS Compatibility Test Before You Get Attached)

Logan Ury: #1 Dating Mistake That Leads to the Wrong Relationship (Use THIS Compatibility Test Before You Get Attached)

Jay’s Must-Listens: Making Friends as an Adult Is Hard! (8 Powerful Lessons on Building Friendships That Last) Ft. Trevor Noah and Mel Robbins

Jay’s Must-Listens: Making Friends as an Adult Is Hard! (8 Powerful Lessons on Building Friendships That Last) Ft. Trevor Noah and Mel Robbins

Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

If You’re Going Through a Breakup, Listen To This

If You’re Going Through a Breakup, Listen To This

HILARY DUFF: The Human Behind the Headlines (Her Most Honest Chapter Yet)

HILARY DUFF: The Human Behind the Headlines (Her Most Honest Chapter Yet)

BENNY BLANCO, DAVE BURD & KRISTIN BATALUCCO: Friends Keep Secrets… Or Do They? (Friendship, Weddings, Love)

BENNY BLANCO, DAVE BURD & KRISTIN BATALUCCO: Friends Keep Secrets… Or Do They? (Friendship, Weddings, Love)

LUKE COMBS: The Man Behind The Success (Marriage, Fatherhood & Life With OCD)

LUKE COMBS: The Man Behind The Success (Marriage, Fatherhood & Life With OCD)

PRIYANKA CHOPRA JONAS: Fame, Motherhood, Love and the Moment That Changed Everything

PRIYANKA CHOPRA JONAS: Fame, Motherhood, Love and the Moment That Changed Everything

Stop Trying to β€œWin” An Argument With Your Partner! (THIS Shift Will Turn Conflict into Communication)

Stop Trying to β€œWin” An Argument With Your Partner! (THIS Shift Will Turn Conflict into Communication)

Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Michael Pollan: The Hidden Cost Of Constant Distraction (Use THIS Practice To Reclaim Your Attention, Clarity, And Inner Freedom)

Michael Pollan: The Hidden Cost Of Constant Distraction (Use THIS Practice To Reclaim Your Attention, Clarity, And Inner Freedom)

How to Manifest REAL Love: What Actually Works! (According to Science)

How to Manifest REAL Love: What Actually Works! (According to Science)

Dating Expert Sabrina Zohar: You’re Not Confused, You’re Ignoring the Signs (THIS Mindset Shift Will End the β€œWhat If” Loop for Good)

Dating Expert Sabrina Zohar: You’re Not Confused, You’re Ignoring the Signs (THIS Mindset Shift Will End the β€œWhat If” Loop for Good)

The REAL Reason You Feel Behind (It’s Not What You Think!) Use THIS Simple Reset to Make Confident Decisions

The REAL Reason You Feel Behind (It’s Not What You Think!) Use THIS Simple Reset to Make Confident Decisions

NICK JONAS: The REAL Story Behind a Lifetime of Fame, His Inner Critic, and How Fatherhood Changed Everything

NICK JONAS: The REAL Story Behind a Lifetime of Fame, His Inner Critic, and How Fatherhood Changed Everything

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