Order of Man

What Order of Man Says About Relationships

29 episodes about relationships

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elit...

Key Insights on Relationships

Charlemagne actually proposed marriage to Byzantine Empress Irene around 800 CE, but the proposal was rejected by her advisers who then overthrew her

  • The alternate scenario explores how a successful Charlemagne-Irene marriage in 794 could have prevented the East-West Schism and fundamentally altered European religious history
  • Money serves you best when it stops being the thing you think about, allowing focus on meaningful problems and relationships
  • You don't attract the relationship you want - you attract the relationship you're ready to participate in
  • Love responds to identity signals, not affirmations - you act based on who you believe you are
  • Never go dating when you're starving for love - you make poor decisions from a place of lack
  • People who get prenups usually don't get divorced, suggesting the vulnerable conversation required builds relationship skills
  • According to Your Brain on Love, couples should address arguments within three minutes to prevent seeing partners as predators

Episodes

7 Strategies for Becoming a Better Father | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

7 Strategies for Becoming a Better Father | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men and the Myth of Martyrdom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men and the Myth of Martyrdom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

DALE PARTRIDGE | Why Society Has Become Effeminate (and, What to Do About It…)

DALE PARTRIDGE | Why Society Has Become Effeminate (and, What to Do About It…)

What Is Inner Authority (And How to Build It) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

What Is Inner Authority (And How to Build It) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Trust Yourself, Maximize Your Value, and Never Dim Your Light | ASK ME ANYTHING

Trust Yourself, Maximize Your Value, and Never Dim Your Light | ASK ME ANYTHING

Safe Doesn't Mean "Soft"

Safe Doesn't Mean "Soft"

Men Are Built: Live From the Men's Forge

Men Are Built: Live From the Men's Forge

Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

This Isn't Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

This Isn't Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

How to Rebuild Your Life When You've Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

How to Rebuild Your Life When You've Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men's Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING

Men's Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING

RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man

RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man

The 'Let's Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING

The 'Let's Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING

Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING

Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING

FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility

FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility

5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING

Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING

IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty

IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty

Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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