Order of Man

What Order of Man Says About Relationships

30 episodes about relationships

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elit...

Key Insights on Relationships

Dating success isn't practiced, it's absorbed - women respond to men whose lives require confidence, not men trying to be confident

  • We're in Cold War II between US and China, but with much deeper economic ties than the US-Soviet relationship ever had
  • Blue-collar workers on construction sites were the most even-keeled about COVID because they have a daily relationship with danger and know how to calibrate risk
  • "Not because you're great, not because you're amazing, not because you're the best, but because I love you" - Mike
  • "Your cohort is going to run all the important institutions 35 years from now" - Lloyd advising young professionals on long-term relationship building
  • The three pursuits after health and wealth are truth, love, and beauty - truth is permanent, love means being in love rather than being loved
  • Every relationship is transactional with value exchange - the secret to happy relationships is two happy people, not trying to make each other happy
  • Cousin marriage remains prevalent worldwide because genetic risks drop dramatically from 0.5 relatedness (siblings) to 0.125 (cousins), making biological concerns minimal

Episodes

What Society Values in Men, Where Does a Man Start, and Why Humility Makes or Breaks Us | ASK ME ANYTHING

What Society Values in Men, Where Does a Man Start, and Why Humility Makes or Breaks Us | ASK ME ANYTHING

7 Strategies for Becoming a Better Father | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

7 Strategies for Becoming a Better Father | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men and the Myth of Martyrdom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men and the Myth of Martyrdom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

DALE PARTRIDGE | Why Society Has Become Effeminate (and, What to Do About It…)

DALE PARTRIDGE | Why Society Has Become Effeminate (and, What to Do About It…)

What Is Inner Authority (And How to Build It) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

What Is Inner Authority (And How to Build It) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Trust Yourself, Maximize Your Value, and Never Dim Your Light | ASK ME ANYTHING

Trust Yourself, Maximize Your Value, and Never Dim Your Light | ASK ME ANYTHING

Safe Doesn't Mean "Soft"

Safe Doesn't Mean "Soft"

Men Are Built: Live From the Men's Forge

Men Are Built: Live From the Men's Forge

Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

This Isn't Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

This Isn't Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

How to Rebuild Your Life When You've Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

How to Rebuild Your Life When You've Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men's Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING

Men's Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING

RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man

RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man

The 'Let's Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING

The 'Let's Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING

Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING

Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING

FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility

FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility

5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING

Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING

IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty

IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty

Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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